People find it quite easy to climb up - not just rock or careerer ladder rather I will say all sort of upward activity.
But when comes the term to go back to where we started from or say somewhere down the line some of us do fare terribly. It's sort of tumbling down .
Why this happen ? May be I do not have the answer to the question or rather there is nothing called tailored made answer to all our queries .
Recently I have some kind of upward movement and the movement was very quick.
To be more specific I had an climbing experience that took just 2 weeks to go up and reach the peak. And I had to come down in just 3 days. I was not ready either for the quick climbing up or the trembling down.
After a few days I started analyzing the events and came up with my own explanation about the eventuality and I how reacted.
When I started climbing up I did never set out my destination and my primary aim was to to reach the goal. As if the journey only involves a call to start and reaching the tip point. In the path I never felt about the incremental upwards effect I was undergoing. But the incremental ups were making me reach there. And when I reach the peak and was told to reverse back I was upset. After reaching the peak I found myself really far away from I where began. It took incremental effort to reach the point. And from the decision point I never anticipated about reversing back or say about the failure. I thought only about further up. The sudden reverse gear made me feel bad. I knew only about incremental upward movement but not about graceful climbing down in a rather less time. And that's why we people overreact.
The lesson I learnt is be ready to face all the possibility. And when you reach your current goal you may need to think about further upward movement or may be reverse back but not beforehand. But if you really need to reverse back just take it as a new path and forget about the direction. That will save you from overreacting. And frankly speaking this idea helped me to a great extent to climb down gracefully.
But when comes the term to go back to where we started from or say somewhere down the line some of us do fare terribly. It's sort of tumbling down .
Why this happen ? May be I do not have the answer to the question or rather there is nothing called tailored made answer to all our queries .
Recently I have some kind of upward movement and the movement was very quick.
To be more specific I had an climbing experience that took just 2 weeks to go up and reach the peak. And I had to come down in just 3 days. I was not ready either for the quick climbing up or the trembling down.
After a few days I started analyzing the events and came up with my own explanation about the eventuality and I how reacted.
When I started climbing up I did never set out my destination and my primary aim was to to reach the goal. As if the journey only involves a call to start and reaching the tip point. In the path I never felt about the incremental upwards effect I was undergoing. But the incremental ups were making me reach there. And when I reach the peak and was told to reverse back I was upset. After reaching the peak I found myself really far away from I where began. It took incremental effort to reach the point. And from the decision point I never anticipated about reversing back or say about the failure. I thought only about further up. The sudden reverse gear made me feel bad. I knew only about incremental upward movement but not about graceful climbing down in a rather less time. And that's why we people overreact.
The lesson I learnt is be ready to face all the possibility. And when you reach your current goal you may need to think about further upward movement or may be reverse back but not beforehand. But if you really need to reverse back just take it as a new path and forget about the direction. That will save you from overreacting. And frankly speaking this idea helped me to a great extent to climb down gracefully.
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